From the first day of birth, a child is flooded with feelings. Feelings not only limited to love and hate, but also a roller coaster of emotions. Although human brain development is a lifelong process, it begins to form as early as prenatal life. It is not surprising that the brain is more impressionable during early childhood than in adulthood. Equipped with life-supporting power, the brain functions in two ways; consciously and unconsciously. The conscious part involves a physical aspect, something that the five senses send to the brain and process. As it deals with the brain's conscious function, it decides which events to save as memories and others to ignore. The same process happens with the unconscious part of the brain, but it happens in the background. The process might take place while you are enjoying free time or working hard to get something done. The unconscious part of the brain continues to function while the conscious part is focused on what a person is concentrating on. People tend to forget or ignore the later part of the brain, which plays a vital role in shaping a person's nature, character, attitude and social response. Every single person has or has spent their childhood in a family environment; a family environment not limited by parents. A family can be a combination of friends, cousins, foster care, and more. The growing environment plays a key role in shaping one's future, personality and attitude. Personally, I spent my entire childhood and adolescence in a boarding school. My person, my way of perceiving a situation was built by seeing my elders and my teachers. Since the human brain is more impressionable during the first years of life, the situation that a child goes through during his first days will mark and d...... middle of paper ......may be attracted, go out and have a relationship even for a certain period of time, but if the couple lacks attachment, the relationship is destined to end. Every relationship, regardless of type, is bound to have some conflict along the way. A small conflict can lead to big misunderstandings that can lead to separation if the couple lacks attachment. Relationships are not about how many fights and misunderstandings can lead to separation, but they are about a single attachment that started the relationship in the first place. Attachment is like an anchor that maintains the bond between couples. Like an anchor keeps the ship from capsizing, attachment keeps the relationship from sinking. It is a foundation that initiates a relationship and solidifies its true meaning. I think every relationship, friendship, brotherhood, marriage, love are all based on attachment.
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