Most bullies target students in the same class or grade, although 30% of victims report that the bully was older and about 10% report that he or she was younger. It is not known to what extent physical, mental or linguistic difficulties, glasses, skin color, language, height, weight, hygiene, posture and clothing play a role in victim selection. One major study found that the only external characteristics… to be associated with victimization were that victims tended to be smaller and weaker than their peers. One study found that unassertive and socially incompetent youth were more likely to be victimized. Having friends, especially those who help protect you from bullying, appears to reduce your chances of victimization. Victims of bullying suffer consequences that go beyond embarrassment. Some victims experience psychological and/or physical distress, are often absent and are unable to concentrate on schoolwork. Research generally shows that victims have low self-esteem and their victimization can lead to depression that can last years after the victimization. Boys and girls who were bullied at least once a week had health problems, thought about suicide more often and suffered from depression, social dysfunction, anxiety and insomnia. Sociologist Robert Crosnoe provides this in his book “Fitting In, Standing Out”.